Losing weight

Another thing that I've decided that I hate is people saying that they are fat, even if they are. It is the biggest conversation stopper for someone to point out, true or not, that they are fat. What are you supposed to say??? The saying of it does nothing to help the fact, and actually serves as a negative enforcer for both hearer and pronouncer. Silly thing to say. What I wish they would say is something positive like that they are starting a new diet or something like that so that I can help them in some way. I really don't care what they look like as long as they are happy. I tend to think that they are beautiful regardless because they really are.